I use this journal to try to get input into what's going on with me *now*; so I tend to post publicly and then go in afterwards and switch everything to friends-only about a week later.
To those who have asked about my age: I'm 51. I use the 1960 birth date to protect against identity theft; it's close but incorrect.
I'm building a new polyamorous clan in Oregon, and attempting to help parent two new-to-me boys as well as my own two bio-children. I don't *think* it's true that I'm trying to marry the whole world, but so many of you are so nice it's kind of hard to resist.
For more data, see my interests list, or ask to be friended.