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Ah, Love...
polydad
The wolfhound has decided my ears need cleaning. This is making it difficult to read.

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polydad
So, that agenda:

Counter-attacking in response to complaint, as opposed to dealing with the complaint ("You think I don't treat you with respect? Well, *you* leave laundry on the floor!")
Subject changing in response to complaint (Same example)
Using labels as dismissals (Of course you don't understand; you're an Aspie. No, dammit, I don't understand because nobody has explained anything.)
Labelling any disagreement as "a fight"
Labelling all conflict as "*You* are trying to pick a fight." (IE, any disagreement is "Your Fault," for the horrible sin of Disagreeing With Me.)

Any other thoughts?